Returning to a beginner's mind?

Do you ever wonder what the famous coaching skill of ๐Ÿ…ฑ๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ…ถ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ฝ๐Ÿ…ฝ๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ†โ€™๐Ÿ†‚ ๐Ÿ…ผ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ฝ๐Ÿ…ณ really means?

I do โ€” as often as I can.


Today, while preparing lunch, I caught myself thinking: โ€œI donโ€™t know what the next step is.โ€ And the anxiety was already building in my stomach.
I sat down for a momentโ€ฆ and a video appeared that reminded me of something simple and powerful:
๐•€ ๐••๐• ๐•Ÿโ€™๐•ฅ ๐•™๐•’๐•ง๐•– ๐•ฅ๐•  ๐•œ๐•Ÿ๐• ๐•จ
The pressure I put on myself to โ€œhave to knowโ€ blocks the creative path in my brain that already knows.


In the video, a two year old girl sings without hesitation. The people around her were curious โ€” maybe wondering if she could do it, maybe just thinking โ€œhow cuteโ€.
But she didnโ€™t wonder. She didnโ€™t question whether she could, whether she was capable, whether she was allowed. She simply did what she felt like doing in that moment.
๐’๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ. She explored. She enjoyed every note, every movement. And she shifted the energy of the whole group.

That, to me, is beginnerโ€™s mind. Returning to what moves you. Returning to curiosity. Looking at a situation from a different angle than the one your beliefs tell you it โ€œshouldโ€ be.

As Nir Eyal beautifully said yesterday, even the word Be lie ve contains lie. Using his words:
โ€œHow often do we lie to ourselves and call those lies beliefs? And what could happen if we chose a belief that actually works for us instead of limiting us?โ€

In Spanish we use the word CREENCIA, which literally asks: What do I choose to believe in?

So I leave you with this question: ๐€๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ? Where are you placing your energy โ€” and therefore, your power?

In the meantime, take care โ€” and hydrate.